Today I read an interesting peice in TOI.

The writer says we begin by blaming the others for any problems. i.e. "You" are responsible. Then as we grow spiritually we start saying "I" am responsible and as we evolve we say "No one is to blame" ! Interesting, right?

I am sure it must be right, there must be a deeper meaning of the self, ego et al. My soul has not yet reached that spiritual level so I am finding it a little difficult to understand.

No one is to blame? Isn't that kinda running away from responsibilities?

Also pointing out a fault of another takes some courage. It is very easy to say "Jaane do... itna serious mat le.....don't point his mistake he will feel bad"...and so on. It takes courage to stand up and say "I think you are wrong".

So how does this fit in the philosophy of the TOI writer?